The Privacy Protocol
The Circle of Discretion
Discretion is our standard. What is seen, heard, and shared within a sochil remains in the room. Never photograph, record, or disclose the presence of other members without their explicit consent.
Presence Over Proximity
Phone Usage
Be in the moment—sochils are experienced in real time. We value presence above all; please keep device use discreet and take urgent calls away from shared spaces.
The Financial Ledger
Personal Responsibility
Handle your own expenses directly with the venue or host so the outing concludes effortlessly.
Cover your own consumption. We do not run group splits or divide costs—personal accountability is the standard.
Service charges, entry fees, and tips are standard. Support host venues and staff without friction.
The Collective Standard
Respect & Safety
Every member is a node in a larger guild. We demand an environment of mutual intellect, style, wit, and kindness.
Harassment, abuse, or exclusionary behavior is grounds for immediate and permanent revocation of membership. Report any breach of conduct through the app’s “Report User” channel.
For your security, the first point of contact between unknown members must always occur in a public venue or a designated Sochil location. Never move a meeting to a private residence without established lineage.
The Punctuality Grace Period
Punctuality honors the collective. Please arrive within 10 minutes of the scheduled start so the room can move forward together.
The No-Show
Every confirmed spot is a commitment. With limited capacity, canceling within 24 hours or failing to attend strains the collective. Two absences result in a 30-day suspension from the Registry.
Stewardship of Space
We enter the city's finest spaces as guests and patrons. Show generosity to service staff and honor all house rules. We do not just occupy rooms; we elevate them.
The Visual Standard
Point of View
Style is how we set the tone. We celebrate members who dress with sharp taste and intention—effortlessly standing out in any room.